From Sleep and Wellness Clinic – Your sleep therapist
Sleep regression. For many parents, just hearing the term brings on a wave of dread. One moment, your baby is sleeping in peaceful stretches, and the next, they’re waking every hour, skipping naps, and refusing to settle no matter what you do. It can feel like your entire sleep routine is unraveling overnight.
But here’s the silver lining — what we often label as a sleep
“regression” is, in many cases, a sign of healthy growth. These
challenging periods frequently coincide with significant developmental
milestones. That’s why some experts and parents prefer to call them
“sleep progressions.”
Understanding what’s going on during these stages and knowing how to
respond, can make a big difference. Instead of feeling frustrated or
confused, you’ll have the tools to stay calm and supportive — for both
your baby and yourself.
In this detailed guide, we’ll walk you through the most common ages
when sleep regressions happen, explore what causes them, and offer
practical tips to help your baby (and your family) navigate each stage
smoothly.
A sleep regression is a temporary disruption in a baby’s usual sleep
patterns. If your child was previously sleeping well and suddenly starts
waking up more often at night, fighting naps, or struggling to fall
asleep, there’s a good chance they’re going through a regression. These
changes often seem to come out of nowhere and leave many parents
wondering what they’re doing wrong.
But here’s the truth: it’s not about doing something wrong. Most
regressions are linked to your baby’s developmental leaps. Their brains
are growing rapidly, and that can temporarily disrupt their sleep.
Sleep regressions are part of a larger journey — one where your baby is
building lifelong skills. While it may not feel like progress in the
middle of a sleepless night, these periods reflect your child’s
development on a neurological, emotional, and physical level.
It’s common to use the word “regression” because it feels like a step
backward. But in reality, these sleep disruptions often happen because
your baby is moving forward in their growth.
Take learning to roll over, crawl, or speak, for example. These are
exciting achievements for a baby, and they tend to practice them
constantly — even in their sleep. Their brains are working overtime,
processing all the new skills they’re learning. That mental activity can
cause fragmented sleep.
By viewing these stages as “progressions,” you can reframe them as part
of your baby’s growth rather than something to fix or fear. This mindset
shift helps many parents feel more empowered during what can be a tough
time.
While every child is unique, most babies experience sleep regressions at
predictable stages. These tend to line up with major developmental
milestones:
4 months
6 months
8 to 10 months
12, 18, and 24 months
Let’s break down each stage to understand what’s happening and what you can do to support your baby.
This is one of the first major sleep challenges new parents face. It can be particularly overwhelming because it’s the result of permanent changes in your baby’s sleep structure.
During this time, some breastfeeding mothers worry that their baby’s frequent night wakings are due to hunger. While this could occasionally be true, it’s more often tied to sleep disruptions, not a supply issue. Consulting a lactation expert can help clarify things if you're uncertain.
This regression can also bring on early risings — babies waking at 4 or 5 AM and staying awake. This isn’t necessarily part of the regression itself but may stem from routine or environmental factors. If this continues, consider adjusting naps and wake windows.
Around the six-month mark, babies are becoming much more active and alert. They may start rolling, sitting up on their own, and even showing signs of crawling.
This phase can feel like a juggling act, but it’s also a time of enormous growth. Offering your baby love and structure will help guide them through it.
This stage is often described as one of the most exhausting. Your baby is likely crawling, pulling to stand, babbling more, and dealing with teething pain — all at once.
Try not to introduce new sleep habits like rocking to sleep during this stage — your baby may begin to rely on them, making future transitions harder.
Just when you thought the sleep rollercoaster was ending, toddlerhood brings new challenges. These regressions are less about physical milestones and more about emotional and cognitive shifts.
Understanding that toddlers are processing a lot of emotions can help you respond with empathy, even on the tough nights.
Not every change in sleep is a regression. There are other factors
that can interrupt your baby’s sleep patterns:
Swollen gums, drooling, and fussiness may lead to poor sleep.
Your baby may be extra hungry or clingy.
A cold, fever, or tummy trouble can certainly cause sleep disruptions.
Travel, new caregivers, or time zone shifts can impact sleep, too.
If sleep difficulties persist beyond a week without other signs of developmental change, consider tracking your baby’s habits and consulting your pediatrician.
While sleep regressions are a normal part of early development, establishing healthy sleep foundations early on can reduce their intensity and make them easier to manage. The goal isn’t to eliminate sleep disruptions entirely — that’s unrealistic for babies and toddlers — but to create a secure, predictable sleep environment that helps your child feel safe and supported.
Every baby has a sweet spot for how long they can be awake before
becoming overtired. Keeping your baby up too long can backfire —
instead of falling asleep faster, they become wired, fussy, and
harder to settle. On the other hand, putting them to sleep too early
may result in short naps or frequent wakings.
Get familiar with average wake windows for your baby’s age, and
observe their sleepy cues (rubbing eyes, yawning, zoning out) to
guide nap and bedtime timing.
Routines build rhythm and security. When your baby knows what’s
coming next — bath, book, lullaby, bed — their body and mind begin
to relax naturally. Over time, even the sound of a certain song or
the smell of a favorite lotion can become a signal for winding down.
Keep the routine short (15–30 minutes) and consistent. The actual
order matters less than the predictability and calm it brings.
A dark, quiet, and cool room helps your baby fall — and stay —
asleep more easily. Use blackout curtains to block early morning
light, a white noise machine to drown out sudden household sounds,
and dress your baby in breathable sleepwear that matches the room
temperature.
Limit stimulating toys or flashing nightlights near the crib.
Simplicity often works best.
Helping your baby learn to fall asleep on their own doesn’t mean
leaving them to cry endlessly. It’s about gradually giving them the
chance to settle with less intervention. This might mean reducing
how much you rock them over time, or gently transitioning from
feeding to sleep to feeding before sleep.
If your baby always needs you to fall asleep, they’ll likely need
you every time they wake at night too — even between normal sleep
cycles. Start slowly, with compassion, and follow your baby’s cues.
There’s no rush, but gentle, respectful changes make a difference
over time.
Life with a baby isn’t predictable. Illness, travel, teething, and
developmental shifts will always bring some sleep disruption. What
matters more than perfection is consistency over time and a willingness
to get back on track when things slip.
If you’ve had a rough week and your baby’s routine is off — that’s okay.
Revisit your routines, reset bedtime, and be patient. You’re not
starting from scratch, even if it feels that way.
If your baby’s sleep struggles extend past two weeks, or if the situation is causing significant stress for you or your family, it’s okay to ask for help.
A pediatric sleep consultant can offer
You don’t have to do it alone. There’s support available for every stage of your sleep journey.
Sleep regressions are one of the most common — and most challenging —
parts of early parenthood. But they’re also a sign that your baby is
growing, learning, and thriving. With the right tools, a steady routine,
and a lot of patience, you can guide your child through these stages
with confidence.
And when you need extra support, don’t hesitate to reach out. At the
Sleep and Wellness Clinic, we’re here to help you and your family get
the rest you deserve.
Your baby’s sleep can improve
and so can yours. Schedule a consultation with our team and
get personalized guidance for your family’s unique needs.
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